I keep having dreams that I am cheating on my spouse with my ex. This has been going on for the past two nights. The first night I left my spouse for my ex, and we were in love. And the second night I had a sex dream about the same ex. What does this mean?
Dreams tells us something about our waking life & link back to it. Think about your dreams & try to pinpoint a specific feeling you have in the dream. This feeling might be different in each of your dreams. Link that feeling or feelings to your waking life. Do you have that same feeling when you are awake? If you can do this then that is what your dream is about.
you ex represents green grass.
you have forgotten all the problems and the reason why it ended.
you miss little bits of joy or fun formthe past...
and so you in your dreams where you are free to experiement without hurting your hubs
ycheating spouse dreamsou go for it...but in real life, you probably would not.
Now as far as the current relationship goes.
Do you feel it is wanning and weraing thin?
Are there things that are reminding you of the past,
wher eyour current seems more liek your ex???
then in your dream you aren't really thinkign of ex, but current, right?
also, when things get stressed or change,
we always long for the safe, the familiar eventhe out of reach fantasy
instead of staying present and fixing what isn't working.
is your relationship honest and open, can you share any lacking
with your partner or will he/she get mad or pout instead of really meetin you
halfway?
If things are scaring you because they are actign like your ex,
then confront and deal do not bury or excuse.
Stand up for what you want and need, or be willing to walk away.
you know what's fair and can't bcheating spouse dreamse expected to not be heard.
But if you are just bored or longing for what isn't meant to be,
slap yourself into reality and let go of the past "fantasy"
because it wasn't for you...it didn't fit perfectly or you
would still be there...
let your self off the hook...
remind yourself it takes two to fail,
that it wasn't perfect and that you don't really want to go back
and the dream will fade out
as you remember what you learned and what you have choosen.
Perhaps you will run into your ex soon,
will you know how to avoid temptation and not fall for them again?
will you honor your current commitment and vows
and run not walk away from the ex?
will you stand up for who you are now, not who you used to be
you have changed from what was and you dont' want to go backward.
Big hugs.
Tam
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